This one isn't going to be as tame.
Backstory: A "friend" of mine posted a status about how he can't understand why any logical, intelligent person would vote for Obama, blah blah blah. I responded by saying "some of us care about people more than money". A friend of his challenged me, and I posted several links of examples of Obama's policies helping people (women, the elderly, etc.) His girlfriend's momma (she gets a 'momma' cause she's one of those Jesus-lovin' southern ladies who was raised 'raght, y'all!) responded early this morning. It gets its own post, because there are so many things I just have to comment on (read: bitch about, yell about, rant and rave about, etc.). Here we go. I hope you're sitting down.
"There is so much more wrong now than fair pay for women and gay rights.....our economy is so screwed up and headed for my disaster now that O is president again. Women who are concerned about fair pay should be wondering if they will have a job at all soon. Your parents & grandparents under Obamacare will not have much say in the care they receive - Obamacare decides whether or not their life should be sustained. Millions of babies can now be killed right up to the day of birth and even when partially born. Lord Jesus, we need you now. Please be with our country."
We're gonna take this one in sections.
1. "There is so much more wrong now than fair pay for women and gay rights"
Since she's a woman, we'll deal with that first. Lady, call me crazy, but I think the fact that a female in such a high position like Lilly Ledbetter being paid significantly less than her male counterparts simple because she has a vagina is disgraceful. The economy doesn't give a damn about your anatomical makeup. Milk and gas are the same price for everyone. But the fact that so many corporations believe they can pay you less just because you have different hormones is a much bigger deal than the economy if you ask me. I know a lot of you reading this at home are like, "But the economy is causing homelessness and joblessness and everything is so expensive!" Okay. You're right. But, there is something so fundamentally fucked-up about a society that still cannot see women as people- whole, real, functional people- that it thinks its perfectly fine to pay them less for jobs that are just as stressful, just as demanding, and require just as many qualifications. Last I checked, "penis" was not a requirement to run a company.
And, if we're playing the "but women don't belong in the workplace because they're subservient to men and are supposed to cook and bear children", like Mitt Romney thinks, don't they deserve more pay? How many single moms are out there working to support themselves and their kids? And, I don't know if you realized, but being a female is expensive. Papsmears and mammograms and birth control and hygiene products ain't cheap y'all, and that's if you're healthy. So many insurers won't cover "pre-existing conditions", which by the way, includes pregnancy. Plus, our ever-so-wonderful American culture expects women to look pristine every single day, and you'd better believe that we get criticized if we don't. "She's too fat", "She's too skinny", "Her teeth are yellow", "Her tits are too small", "Ugh, put on some lipstick!", "She wears too much makeup", "Her hair is awful!", etc. Last I checked, most men don't need an hour to get ready in the morning. Or a curling iron. Or shampoo that costs $20 a bottle so their hair won't go flat. Or lipstick.
So, let's recap. It's not important for women to receive equal pay, even though being a woman is expensive. Archaic thinking like this is scary. Furthermore, if we can pay our women correctly, they're less likely to be in debt. Thus helping the economy as a whole. But women like this don't understand that, because they're too busy bitching about the economy and praying that the mouth of hell doesn't open up under their feet because we have a liberal president.
Now, the gays. This is such a sensitive issue for me, because some of my very dearest friends are gay and are wonderful people, and two of them have been together for 10+ years. That's commitment. Half the straight marriages in American can't say that. The idea that gay marriage threatens the sacred institution is completely absurd when you have women like Kim Kardashian running around having 7month long marriages.
As for this lady, she is absolutely correct in saying that gay marriage and financial issues are not of the same caliber. And that's why it's so completely ridiculous that nothing has been done about it. Maine, Massachusetts, Maryland, Washington, New York, New Hampshire, Vermont, Iowa, and Connecticut all allow gay marriages. Has it sent them into bankruptcy? Nope. In fact, I'll bet its done nothing but help their economies. Marriage licenses cost money. So do receptions. And limos. All money that a couple will put back into the state, either directly as legal costs or indirectly by spending it in local businesses. Fixing the economy is such a huge issue, so why the hell can't my friends get married? You're right, we do have bigger problems than gay marriage. So let it happen, and let them spend their money in your state instead of going to New York and spending it there.
(I have so many other issues with this, but I'm trying to keep it as tame as possible.)
2. "Your parents & grandparents under Obamacare will not have much say in the care they receive - Obamacare decides whether or not their life should be sustained."
Alright. Obamacare does include cuts to Medicare. However, the idea that cutting pay to hospitals and hospice will result in killing old people is ridiculous. It's a healthcare provider's job to provide healthcare (seems pretty self-explanatory doesn't it?) and if they lack the funding to do so properly, the answer is not to let their patients die. Seriously? Any well-run business knows that! ALso last I checked, Obamacare doesn't say "You will go to this hospital or this elderly care facility or else". Lack I checked, it doesn't force the elderly into government-run medical facilities that do whatever they please with their patients. Stop being so dramatic.
Speaking of dramatic, my grandma, who has diabetes and arthritis, was terrified of Mitt Romney and his healthcare plans. His general strategy is to say, "It's okay, you can always go to the emergency room!". Just like kids trying to go to college can ask their parents for money, right?
3. "Millions of babies can now be killed right up to the day of birth and even when partially born."
I just don't even know where to start with this.
So, we can't be concerned about women's rights and gay rights, but you're concerned about unborn babies. We can't even take care of the people we currently have in the world, we restrict rights and pay and the economy is suffering, but you want every baby to have the right to be born, no matter the circumstances? You are placing the rights of partially-developed, unborn humans over those of homosexuals and women. And you don't see the flaw in that?
Let's play a game. Say Romney wins, Ryan gets his way, and abortion is outlawed. What do we get?
-more children with single moms that can't support them
-more children with birth defects due to drug use, alcohol abuse, etc.
-children whose parents don't have the time or the interest in taking care of them
-more children with teenage mothers, who lack the emotional maturity to take care of them
-more children who suffer divorce, if their parents married out of obligation from the pregnancy
-women permanently injured and dead from trying to obtain illegal abortions, or from trying to abort themselves
-more children in orphanages, foster homes, etc. with no real home who were given up for adoption
And for what benefit? Really, tell me. To please your god? I completely understand being morally against abortion, and honestly, I don't think I could do it under most circumstances. But that does not give me, or anyone, the right to choose for everyone, thus endangering lives.
4. "Lord Jesus, we need you now. Please be with our country."
This is my issue with so many Christians. I discussed this a little bit yesterday, but not as extensively as I want to. This was absolutely the final straw, and what sent me spiraling into liberal anger.
This mentality that so many Christians have that they can ignore what's going on around them when it's convenient, because they are not of this world and Jesus will swoop in and save them someday is what drives me the most crazy. Has anyone been abducted lately? Not that I know of. You're stuck here, with all of us. Even the liberals. Wake up, and deal with it.
Jesus came to this earth to teach man how to care for man. Period. Not to say, "Oh hey, write a book about me so that all my faithful will be ready for me when I come back for them." Not to say "y'all are special, and I'm sorry you're stuck with all these other losers, but just try to put up with them til I come back for you." To say, "This is how you should live." Look:
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” (John 13:34-35)
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. (John 4:7)
For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should walk in his steps. (Peter 2:21)
I once heard a saying, that it does no good to pray in a room with no windows. And I think that's the strategy of so many Christians. Instead of deciding how best to cope with the world around them, they go and hide in their windowless rooms and pray for all of the bad men to go away, and all of the bad things, and for justice to once again be restored to the world. But they don't do anything about it except tell college girls how wrong they are on Facebook and talk about the rapture.
I know I'm being unfair, because most of my experiences are from the south and there are plenty of wonderful people in American who do take action. I've had the privilege of knowing quite a few of them. But I've also known far too many people to pray for everything to get better, rather than doing anything about it, and who condemn the nation because the "good Christian candidate" didn't get elected.
All I have to say is, I hope you enjoy the rapture.
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